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Showing posts with label International adoption. Show all posts
Showing posts with label International adoption. Show all posts

Wednesday, May 23, 2012

International adoption vs. local adoption

After a family decides to adopt they next have to decide whether they want to adopt nationally or internationally. There are children all over the world who are in need of forever families and many Americans have made the decision to adopt internationally.

Because of pop culture it seems as if everyone is adopting internationally. Celebrities such as Brangelina, Madonna, Meg Ryan, and most recently Charlize Theron. The TV show Modern Family also features a gay couple who adopted a daughter, Lily, from Asia. But, despite all the attention in pop culture, recent statistics came out that showed that international adoptions in America are at a 15 year low.

The number one scare about adopting international i s the fear that the child might be a victim of child trafficking. The fact that by adopting a child parents helped to take their child away from their family rather than just trying to provide a better life for a the child. The latest international adoption gone wrong involves a young Guatemalan girl who was allegedly kidnapped as a child and brought to the U.S. to be adopted.  Currently the United States refuses to return the girl because at the time of the adoption the U.S. and Guatemala had not signed the Hague Abduction Convention. I can only imagine what the adoptive parents are going through knowing that their daughter had a mom who loved her combined with the thought that their daughter might not be able to be their daughter anymore. It's enough to make any prospective adoptive parent nervous.

Dr. Jane Aronson, the CEO of Worldwide Orphas Foundation, sites a Glopbal Orphan Crisis as being the trouble with international adoption, not trafficking. She believe that instead of pouring money into good adoption practices the money should go towards helping the mothers or families giving up their children.

There are a lot of opinions, both positive and negative, about international adoption. No matter where you stand on the issue the fact stands that there are thousands of kids all over the world who are waiting to find their forever families and adoption should always looked at as a positive.

That being said, how do you feel about international adoption vs. domestic adoption?